- Negotiate Clear Boundaries: Consenting to generally kinky fun is a bit of a beginner mistake, even if you’ve connected with someone you share kinks with. Kink and BDSM cover so much territory that it’s important to be clear about the activities you’re keen to engage in, and the things that could be triggering, or should be outright avoided. These desires and limits can change and grow as we do, so never think you’re restricting yourself by not doing ALL THE THINGS. Start with the fetishes you’re both super enthusiastic about, and build a solid foundation on which you can start setting some riskier scenes.

- Enthusiastic Consent: This is the form of consent I encourage all of you to practice. There is very little room for coercion or manipulation because it comes from a place of authentic eagerness, curiosity and excitement. When everyone in a kink scene is consensually engaged and excited about the prospects it can make for a pretty carefree fun time.

- Risk Awareness and Mitigation: Kink and BDSM are inherently risky – that’s part of what attracts many of us towards these activities. It adds another layer of adrenaline and sensation to our sex lives, and gives another layer of power and passion to relationships. Before you indulge in your particular fetish it’s good to get an idea of what the risks might be, and if there’s anything in your personal history that could limit or increase your risks. Whatever risks might be involved – some common ones include broken skin, bruising, caught restraints, hyperventilation – be sure to have care products ready to go once play has finished. We’ll cover this more in aftercare.

- Physical and Emotional Safety: You’ve done all the prep – found a willing and trustworthy partner, negotiated limits, and set up the required space. Even so, things don’t seem right and fun. Your enthusiasm has dwindled. Firstly, don’t think your consent is an undoable spell. If things aren’t feeling good, just call a stop. If your gut has been right about your chosen partner, there will likely be room to chat through any triggers, or problems, if that’s something you’d like to do. Know where the First Aid kit is – just in case!

- Aftercare: As the name suggests, aftercare is the activity that happens after the kink session. Like an intense fuck session, kink can be exhausting – so many feelings, so much stimulation, so much endurance. Aftercare acknowledges the intense connection BDSM allows, offering space in which to ground after what can be such a full-on time. Aftercare differs for everyone, and some people don’t even want it at all. It can include tending to wounds, cuddles and snacks, or a quiet chat to debrief. Just like the play itself, the aftercare is negotiated by the players involved and depends on what they want or need from each other.

Before you even start playing, you need a partner you can trust, and that’s regardless of whether you’re interested in a Dominant or submissive role. You need to know the person you’re playing with will respond to your needs, and/or communicate their needs to you.

As we know with online meet-ups, it’s always better to meet in public. There are often casual meets in cafes or pubs where kinksters get together in an everyday space just to chat and catch up (They’re called ‘munches’). There’s no BDSM gear or outfits – it’s all very ‘vanilla’. But it’s a really great space to meet up with other kinksters you’ve met online in a very safe and supportive space.

Join an online community. Social media offers a few options – there are kink themed pages on Facebook you can like, or BDSM peeps on Insta or Twitter. And then there’s a couple of platforms specific to the BDSM and fetish communities, the biggest of which is Fetlife. Online communities may not be perfect – pages on the mainstream platforms are always of threat of some sort of ban or suspension, and Fetlife has some navigation issues – but they can also help you meet people, learn things, find events in your area, and potentially inspire your kinky play.

One thing to make sure of is that you find someone passionate about consent and safety. And come to think of it, that will probably be the topic for my next blog. Both are so connected to a great kink experience, so I think it’s really important to discuss it. It might come sooner than you think!

Speaking of cumming sooner than you think… Very fucking HOT content!!! Over the next couple of weeks, you’ll find out exactly why I’ve been so orgasmic over my first time shooting with the adorably wicked Marina Lee, and why Laney Day was the perfect addition to this slippery, double-scissoring sisterhood.

Fuck! Things get so sexy messy, it’s a total treat. And of course, it wouldn’t be a solid fortnight unless my arse was getting fondled, fingered or fucked – several times, by several people. Well subscribers, over the next two weeks, you will see it all. Videos, interviews, and explicit photosets – three uploads a week, all for you.

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Wishing you all the best until next time,

Charlie x

Variety is the spice of life. And as you’ve seen from my content, I love changing things up. For me my days on set are some of the best on my calendar. Not only is all the labour leading up to the shoot about to be realised, but I’m about to hang out with some truly glorious people, and get a hole or three seen to! Even when it’s physically and intellectually exhausting, challenging, and chaotic, it’s in the most exhilarating and blissful way.

It’s always an early start. Best case scenario, I get to stay on location the night before, but even if I do, it only saves me an extra hour or so. I always try to arrive on set well before the cast and crew begin to arrive. It’s good to be able to acquaint myself with the space, get the necessary paperwork ready, and visualise staging ideas.

Once I’ve booked a location for a day, we try to get as much out of the space as possible, so there’ll be numerous scenes being shot that day. Generally the crew arrive first, and as we chat through ideas for lighting, and camera angles, we also start unpacking the many crates of gear required to get the job done. Depending on the schedule, and the required look for the first shoot, I might also start hair and make-up. Generally, I think we’re pretty well organised, with the crew handling the set-up by the time the cast start arriving.

When I schedule a day of shooting, we always leave the messier, crazier shit til last – makes sense, right? So the day generally starts with whatever is simplest to shoot – be it fewest cast members, tightest space, least angles. Before we start shooting, we just hang out; get paperwork done, chat about life while we finish up hair and make-up, and go over what the scene will look like, and what we’re wanting to achieve. Once we’re ready, it’s over to the crew for a couple of walk-throughs, checking the light, camera angles, sound levels etc. and way the action play out. After that, someone calls action. And I get a thrill in my gut every time.

(I’ve written a post in this blog about porn sex – what it’s like and how it differs from sex in my personal life. Go check it out for more details. Kiss!)

I’m pretty good at bouncing back from a sexy endorphin rush, so after pacifying my pussy for the required amount of time, and promising her there’ll be more orgasms to come, I settle into a little debrief with my collaborators while I rehydrate and refuel. Between shoots, we usually have maybe 90 mins of break in between. But when I say ‘break’, a lot of that goes into setting up for the next scene. I’ve got to wash and freshen up – often redo hair and or make-up, the equipment needs to be moved, and re-set, and the newly arriving cast-members need to be welcomed and settled in, then briefed on our intentions for the shoot.

As I mentioned earlier, the intensity and complexity of the shoots is planned to escalate throughout the day, so we don’t tire anyone out too early, or take the chance of messing up the schedule. It’s not uncommon for the number of people on-set to grow throughout the day. I’m often blessed with cast members arriving early, or staying after their shoot to help out on set. It’s such a fucking wholesome and wonderful thing, and an excellent example of the adorable camaraderie created on our shoots. I get tingles thinking about it.

Around mid-afternoon, we’re at least two scenes in, and doing some eats, and setting up for our final shoots. Often we’ll shoot interview material, or do a photoset if we’re dressed and ready for a scene. But this is usually a pretty chill time, amping up to whatever big messy thing we have planned. If it’s an orgy on a dining table, aggressive sploshing, cake-fed blowjobs, watersports, rope, or just pools of squirt, there’s a pretty good chance it was up last on the schedule. There are some clean-ups and comedowns that really do need time, especially Shibari and hardcore sploshing!

The day ends in any number of ways, always spontaneous and dependent on how we’re all feeling. Sometimes we’re all just keen to haul arse home to our pets, so the pack up is quick, and organised – the crew are super precise with their process, and if there’s bonus help we can get out pretty quick. But other times, we grab dinner and have some drinks, and hang out into the night, chatting while we gather power cords and sand bags, pretty much cruising the pack-up. And then indulging in some of the luxuries the location may have on offer – Hello spa! Hi beautiful balcony! Hey there stunning views! I mean, it’s really not terrible.

I do wonder what my typical shoot will look like in the future. Much of my content was created under the restricted circumstances of Melbourne lockdowns. Not only were there very few times to create, but the time we did have was finite – even if we could get together, the next lockdown was potentially just around the corner, so we had to make as much content as we could when we could. Now that we’re living in a lockdown-free reality it’s easier to shoot less content more frequently and settle that Shoot Day schedule down a bit. But will I? I guess 2022 will tell.

Hoping 2022 is being good to you all so far!

Best wishes,

Charlie x

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Getting the FUCK Out of 2021!
12/26/2021
Tags: updates doublepenetration

Welcome back to my blog, wonderful people. I hope this post finds you happy and well, having a well-earned rest after the silly season.

So what a year it’s been, hey? Another fucking HARD one! I have gotta say I am so proud of my Melbourne-based team for keeping up the momentum during the times that it was almost impossible to make plans, let alone connect in any meaningful manner. I am truly blessed to have such creative minds working with me, finding ways to make meaningful content in lockdown, and being ready to spring into action as soon as restrictions eased. My co-collaborators have been rock stars – patient, enthusiastic, and always willing to shine for the camera. It hasn’t been the easiest year, but if we can produce this quality of content working around lockdown conditions, can you even imagine what we will accomplish during 2022? I am just so super excited for what the future will bring. I have some big plans in the works, but there’ll be more on that in weeks to come – do be sure to watch this space.

Over the next couple of weeks, I have some of the most incredible content you could imagine, including some more ‘firsts’. You may have noticed last week was full of solo stuff, and I genuinely hope you loved it and lusted over it. To change things up a bit, this week I have not one, but TWO co-stars. Finley Kay makes his way into my panties once again, and I’ll also introduce you to the super sexy James Colt. And let me tell you, we are certainly ending the year with a bang! This week you’ll find photosets, an interview and film featuring these two gorgeous men filling my every hole… Yes, I finally get some long-awaited DP!

I fucking love this scene, and double penetration in general. Even just masturbating with a butt plug or anal toy is incredible. There is a sensual level that is just wild for me when my arse and pussy get simultaneous attention – I feel like having all those wonderful nerve endings in my arsehole activated just makes my pussy all the more sensitive. And the more I have in my butt, the tighter my pussy feels, which brings some extra enhancement to those yummy internal spots. It’s almost like every possible feeling is happening all at once – the front and back wall get stimulated at the same time, and it just feels so FULL. But when two cocks are in play, both inside me together, it’s almost like feeling one big cock that hits every spot. Omg, I love it so much. And I’m sure you will too, once you see it.

And to add to the enticement, look out for the New Year, and a change of pace as holiday chill-times begin, and I can kick back with a book, hang out at home, and play with my holes as I wile and wank the day away. Rest assured I’ll be sharing it here with you all.

Thank you so much for your ongoing support, and subscriptions – enjoy the show, and I’ll see you here in 2022.

Happy New Year, hotties!

Love

Charlie x

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