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Tips for Being a Better Bottom
08/30/2023 10:27pm
Tags: anal bottom sex

Bottoming, or being the receptive partner during anal sex, can be intimidating. However, there is no need to be nervous! With a little bit of preparation and practice, anyone can become a better bottom. So if you are interested in improving your skills as a bottom and having more pleasurable experiences with your partners, read on!

Preparation is Key

The first step to becoming a better bottom is to do some research. Read up on how to properly clean yourself before and after anal sex so that you can stay safe and healthy. Not sure where to start? There are plenty of online resources and books available that can get you up to speed quickly. Or, if you don't wish to clean out, have this conversation with your partner. Some people are OK with a little mess - and they should be! After all, even if you clean out accidents can happen. But some partners feel very uncomfortable, and it's important to know their boundaries beforehand. Additionally, it will be helpful to invest in some lube; using lube during anal sex helps reduce friction and makes the experience more enjoyable for both parties. In particular you will need silicone or oil based lube as it lasts longer and isn't absorbed. Take care with oil based lube on condoms though, they do destroy them.


Take It Slow

When it comes to bottoming, it’s important to remember that slow and steady wins the race. Don’t rush into anything—take time to relax your body and get comfortable with each new sensation before adding something else. This will help ensure that the experience remains pleasurable while also giving you some control over the situation. This might involve getting you partner to start by inserting one finger, then two, then three. I often do this prior to scenes to get myself comfortable.


Communication Is Crucial

At its core, bottoming is about having an intimate relationship with your partner—so communication is essential! Talk openly with your partner about what feels good (or bad) during the experience; this dialogue will help make sure everyone involved is comfortable and enjoying themselves. Additionally, make sure you take time between each activity to check in with yourself; if something doesn’t feel right at any point, don’t be afraid to speak up! Take breaks from anal as well as you need it, and make sure your partner understands to stop or change what they are doing as you need in order to feel most comfortable.


Being a better bottom doesn't have to be hard work; by following these simple tips anyone can become an expert in no time. Although it might feel intimidating at first, bottoming can actually be incredibly rewarding when done correctly. So take some time beforehand for research and preparation, talk openly with your partner throughout the experience, and above all else don't forget to enjoy yourself! With these steps under your belt you'll soon find yourself becoming an even better bottom than ever before!


Charlie x



When it comes to exploring the backside of pleasure, there are various paths to get you there. For many people, having their partner finger them in the ass is a great way to experience new levels of pleasure. But if you’ve never done it before, you may be wondering what it feels like and how exactly to do it properly. Let’s take a look at everything you need to know about giving your partner an enjoyable fingering experience.


What Does It Feel Like?

If you’re curious about the sensation of being fingered in the ass, keep in mind that everyone experiences pleasure differently. That said, most people describe feeling an intense sensation of pleasure and tightness around the opening of their anus as they become aroused. Some people also describe a quick surge of pleasure when their partner slides their finger inside them for the first time.


How To Do It Properly

When it comes to proper technique for fingering someone’s booty, lubrication is key! Before getting started, make sure you have plenty of lube on hand. This will help make insertion more comfortable for both partners and reduce friction that can cause irritation or pain. Once your partner is relaxed and aroused, use your finger (or two!) to massage the area around their anus before slowly inserting your finger(s) inside. Make sure you go slow and listen carefully for any cues from your partner along the way—if they tell you something doesn’t feel good or that they want you to stop, respect those wishes immediately!


Once inside, experiment with different motions such as circles and “come hither” motions until you find what feels best for your partner. You can also try adding more fingers or using a toy if desired — just remember to always keep things comfortable! And don’t forget that communication is key — asking questions like “does this feel good?” or “how does this feel?” will help ensure both partners are enjoying themselves throughout the experience.


Fingering someone's booty can be a great way to explore new levels of pleasure with your partner - but only if done properly! By following these tips and listening closely for any cues from your partner along the way, you can ensure both partners have an enjoyable experience each time around. So go ahead – give it a try! Your booty-ful adventure awaits!


Charlie x



Hello fans and followers! Welcome to this week’s blog – the place where you can get the latest news and updates on my upcoming content, and sexy whispers of future performance plans and amazing co-stars.


This week sees me continue my exploration into the many wonders of butt stuff, guided again by the awesome Honey Anal. Not only will you get to find out just how far Honey can stretch my tight little arse, but you’ll also have access to an intimate pre-shoot chat, where we discuss all things anal, including the type of training it takes to have a fist up your butt!


Butt you don’t have to be aiming for the full stretch to enjoy anal play. If you’re just starting out, or are a little nervous, here’s my top tips for enjoyable anal play:



1) Lube up! Lube is an absolute must for anal play, so don’t be scared to go overboard with it, just put down a towel! It’s better to have too much than not enough – you want this to feel easy and smooth.


2) Foreplay is a thing. Don’t just go trying to shove something in. Warm up that butthole, tease it with strokes and gently prodding fingertips. Massage around the anus, or glide a vibration toy against it, without insertion. Make your booty FEEL receptive.


3) Don’t stress the mess. A lot of people are put off anal cos they think it means a horrific clean up. If you’ve emptied your bowel, some light play with an inch or two of penetration shouldn’t be a problem as the lower rectum holds very little fecal matter. In addition, you can also pop on some disposable gloves, and use condoms over your toys.


4) Toys are amazing. There are so many sensations available within the realm of anal play, and so many ways of playing. Toys bring a whole new world of feels; from the exciting pops of pleasure that anal beads give, all the way through to the full, heavy feeling of a metal buttplug.


5) Comfort is the key! Whatever you do, keep it within your comfortable boundaries. Anal is not supposed to hurt, and then magically start feeling better – if it’s hurting, it’s not right and you need to backtrack to a more comfortable place.



Also hitting the site this week, I’ll slow things down a bit, and pull you into my garden escape with a brand new explicit photoset. You’ll be sure to want to come spend some uninterrupted time with me in this this dreamy, intimate, outdoor scene.


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Wishing you all well for a wonderful week,


Charlie x