Threesomes are an exciting way to spend an afternoon! Whether you’re new to the experience, or you have threesomes regularly, it’s always fun have double the pleasure. When having a threesome, it’s the only time you can get oral and make out at the same time. It’s like getting to go to two amusement parks at one time, only the amusement is a warm, smooth, sexy body that your hands and genitals get to ride on. Who doesn’t love extra pleasure?!
The only downside when it comes to a threesome is when one or more people is not as open-minded when it comes to polyamorous relationships, or when someone gets too attached. It’s easy to accidentally show favoritism, then you have two people having sex and one awkward bystander. If someone gets too attached, you can have jealousy issues that arise, which will just bring drama to your life later. If you even get a hint that there might be jealousy later, run!
While heaps of men want to try a threesome, not many of them know how to initiate one. It’s quite easy, when you know how, and the first time is the hardest one to initiate. If you have an open-minded partner, start by asking if they’d be open to a threesome. This idea may take a while to grow on them, but once they’ve thought about it for a while, they may warm up to the idea.
If you’re not in a relationship and you want to be someone’s third, then go online and find a swinger site where people are specifically looking for thirds. You can also try asking your mates if they are open to a threesome, as long as they’re the fun types that are into that sort of thing!
Threesomes aren’t scary or taboo, and more people are becoming open to trying them lately. If you’re in a relationship, don’t be afraid to ask your partner to consider an extra person for a no-strings-attached threesome with someone you trust to not get attached. If you’re not in a relationship, then get out there and find two people to have some fun and experiment with!
Charlie x
