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Being dominant in the bedroom can be a thrilling experience for both partners, but it pays to go in with knowledge and respect for yourself and your partner. It’s important to know what it means to be dominant, what you should be careful of, how you can bring out that inner Dom, and how the submissive person feels. Let’s dive into all these topics so you can explore dominance in a safe and enjoyable way.


What Does “Dominant” Mean?

Dominance is about power exchange between two people. A dominant person has control or authority over a submissive person. The roles are always consensual; the submissive must agree to the activities proposed by the dominant, and most importantly knows they have an opportunity to stop them at any time. If you ask anyone within the Dom community however, they all know that the true control lies within their submissive; after all, if their sub says "no" then that is a hard note to stop immediately.


In BDSM (bondage-discipline/dominance-submission/sadism-masochism), there are two forms of dominance: physical and psychological. Physical dominance is based on physical control—the use of ropes, handcuffs, blindfolds, paddles etc., while psychological dominance is based on verbal commands or orders. Both forms of dominance involve consent from both parties before engaging in activities – this is very important!


What Should You Be Careful Of?

When exploring dominance in the bedroom you should always be aware of safety first; this includes making sure you have properly researched any equipment or techniques beforehand so that everything runs smoothly. Take courses if you are planning to play in more extreme territories such as breath play. Additionally, communication should always remain open between both partners throughout any activity; this allows for boundaries to be set beforehand as well as providing an opportunity for feedback during or after an activity has taken place. Lastly, make sure that everyone involved is comfortable with their role – if either partner does not feel comfortable with what’s taking place then it’s best to stop and talk about it before continuing further.


How Can You Bring Out That Inner Dom?

Bringing out your inner dom requires trust – trust between partners as well as trust within yourself that you are capable of being dominant without crossing any boundaries set by either party prior to activities taking place. This confidence will help shape your actions within the bedroom as well as providing assurance that both parties are enjoying themselves throughout any activity undertaken. Additionally, by taking small steps towards domination such as introducing new toys or equipment at a slower pace can help establish a more relaxed atmosphere while allowing each partner room to adjust accordingly if needed.


How Does It Feel To The Submissive Person?

As previously mentioned, consent should always remain important when engaging in activities involving dominance; this creates an environment where the submissive person feels safe and free from fear of judgement when exploring their own sexual limits or desires within the bedroom setting. Generally speaking, those who enjoy submission often report feeling a sense of freedom because they no longer have to make decisions - instead they get to let go completely until their dom decides otherwise which helps create a deeper level of intimacy for both parties involved. Powerful people in their day to day life often seek submission in the bedroom as it's often the only place they feel they can relinquish to someone else.


Exploring dominance in the bedroom can be an exciting part of your sex life - just make sure you do it safely! Remember that communication between partners is key when engaging in acts involving domination so that everyone stays comfortable throughout their experiences together; this creates an environment where exploration takes place without fear of judgement or crossing boundaries set by either party beforehand. So if you want to take your sex life up a notch then why not try something new today – bring out your inner dom (or sub) and discover what pleasure awaits! Good luck!


Charlie x